To Be Young, Single & Stupid
Last week some people from our company attended a Trade Show in New York City. I was unable to attend, and my boss was pretty upset by this. He sent me an angry/hurt email and I had to reply in a very diplomatic manner and explain things to him. Poor guy has little in the way of perspective to really understand why I would decline the "privilege" of travelling to New York on business.
There are various reasons I did not go. I will not cite them all here, but I have picked one very poignant example of company treatment to illustrate my aversion. At present in New York City it is 50 degrees and cloudy. From what I understand of the Weather Channel there is a Nor' Easter blowing through and the conditions are not fun. One of my colleagues has been in New York since Thursday last week with no umbrella and they put him up in a hostel. That's right, a friggin' hostel. Granted, they gave him a suite during the weekend but now he's sharing accommodations with backpackers from all over the globe. Not my idea of a business trip, but to each his own. This poor guy had to drive a van from Vegas to New York loaded with equipment for the show and now he is waiting to drive to Chicago for another Trade Show. Talking to the IT guy about the situation he commented "Oh to be young, single and stupid."
I second that sentiment. I suppose, to be fair, that the guy isn't in all that bad a straight. He is salaried so he's kind of on a little vacation out there for the time being. But being forced to drive a van across the country? I don't know if 12 hour days on the highway would be worth the salary he receives (I'm speculating here because i don't know what he makes, exactly). There are little lines we draw every day with people. In a business environment where capitalism is the name of the game those lines are being erased or impinged upon daily as the volume of business and the pressures of the market make the workload swell and drain. Things have to be done and who will be available to take up the slack?
In theory this is where the real "guts" of capitalism kicks in and the "everyone has a price" cliche pops up. What's your time worth to you? The IT guy was right; my colleague is 24, single, and has a situation where he doesn't have to pay rent to anyone. The guy has little in the way of responsibility beyond a car payment. I don't think he's stupid, I think he can just afford (that is to say he's willing to pay via time) to do some things which I consider a little too inconvenient in terms of cost to my life for work. The ol' private life versus work balancing act.